Yesterday a comment in one of my posts upset me. In the video, my baby was crying in my husband’s arms, as he usually does for a few seconds when my husband goes to him, instead of me, at the beginning of the night. My baby would much rather have me, his mum, as I’m *currently* the preferred parent for comfort (and when I say currently, I mean it. Parental preference changes and as a mum of 3, I’ve seen it twice before), but when my baby protests not getting me, and cries, I don’t immediately ru